Read a Review for People Interested in Dating on Heated Affairs
Four Facts about Heated Affair
- Most members are over 25
- There is a long personality questionnaire that can be filled in, which helps Heated Affair members to suss each other out
- All genders and sexualities are welcomed
- The focus is on finding like-minded people for flings rather than attracting a long-term partner
About Heated Affair
HeatedAffair.com is a site that brings together married and coupled up people who are searching for ‘a little extra.’ There is no judgement, and no explanations are needed.
The Pros of Heated Affair
- It’s a big site with lots of active members
- There are lots of ways to communicate with other members from standard instant messaging and ‘Likes’ to conversing in the chat room and commenting on each other’s blogs
- The detail that can be put into a personal profile is vast
- The site is simple and easy to use
- There is a lot to see and do on HeatedAffairs.com
The Cons of Heated Affair
- The app is only available on IOS
- To fully appreciate and enjoy all that HeatedAffairs.com has to offer, you will need to sign up for full membership
- Many extra services, such as adult movies, require extra subscriptions and ‘credits’
- Most members are men
- There is the potential for bots, fake accounts, and scammers, so be careful
- The site can look cluttered as there is so much going on
Your location is a vital part of ‘dating’ on this site. Having a secret affair needs planning, and many members will choose to meet up away from the town or city they live in.
Heated Affairs make it easy to change your location so that should you be travelling for business or pleasure - it’s possible to get in touch with like-minded people.
We found that there is a lot to do on the site, and this makes it worth paying for full membership. Here are a few of the activities that members can get involved in:
- Chat Rooms
- Taking the Myers Briggs based personality test
- Build a ‘Friend Network’
- Watching adult movies and live webcams
From registration, it is clear that HeatedAffairs.com is open to all gendered and non-gendered people. It is a very inclusive site, though do be aware that most members are heterosexual men.
The registration process will take about 10 minutes to do and require you to fill in five separate forms.
Here’s the info that is needed:
- Sexual preferences
- Relationship status
- Personality traits
- A ‘personal statement’ style Bio
Once the process has been completed, a verification email with code needs replying to. This level of detail should help to ensure that all profiles are legitimate.
A strong password is needed to log in. Because of the secrecy needed on this site, we would recommend that users should always log out. ‘Change password’ and ‘Forgotten password’ facilities are easy to access.
Creating a profile
All the information required in registration allows searches and matching to be effective without completing a profile.
However, there are quizzes available, and many members find them useful. Checking out what another member has said about themselves will help decide if they are the one for you.
- Purity test – how experienced are you in the bedroom
- Kinks – what’s your sexual quirk
- Myers Briggs style personality ‘typing’
- Essay-style questions that let you talk about your hopes and dreams
Remember that photos can’t be explicit. You can upload both photos and videos to your profile. Pick a smiling head shot, a full-length photo, and some action shots of you enjoying your hobbies.
Advanced search options are only available to Gold Membership site users. It is this that will find the most compatible matches for you.
The basic search will show you people in your area, age range, and of the sex you’re attracted to.
Searching by profile/username
Add your favorite people, those who you will want to chat with again, to your ‘Hot List.’ This will make them easy to find on the site.
Searching by city
Location is important when looking for a date, so this search parameter is easily adjustable. Most people who are planning to be unfaithful will prefer to meet up somewhere other than in their home city. You can also change your location when you’re travelling to meet new and exciting people.
How to send a message
If you’re a Gold Member, then there are lots of ways to send messages on HeatedAffairs.com:
- Instant messaging (the safest way to say ‘Hello’ to new people and free for standard members)
- Direct messages
- The ‘Hotlist’ – never lose touch with someone you like
- The ‘Icebreaker’ – send out cheeky messages to lots of people at the same time
- ‘Flirt’ – a wordless ‘Hello’ to gauge interest
- Blog forums
- Group chats - for people in a certain town or with the same interests
- Chat rooms
First message tips
- Don’t give out any personal info until you trust them
- Use IM rather than text or email
- Be friendly, flirty, and honest
The matching system
There is no initial ‘matching’ service, as you would find on most dating sites.
Your site feed will reveal who HeatedAffairs.com believes you are compatible with.
The Heated Affair app is only available from The App Store for IOS devices.
The app has the same features as the desktop site, it just makes the site more convenient and private to use.
We thought the app was a lot cleaner and easier to use than the desktop site. Photos are clearer, and the screen looks less cluttered.
- 1 Month:39.95 USD / Month - 39.95 USD
- 3 Months:26.95 USD / Month - 80.85 USD
- 12 Months:19.95 USD / Month - 239.40 USD
- 1 Month:19.95 USD / Month - 19.95 USD
- 3 Months:11.95 USD / Month - 35.85 USD
- 12 Months:8.95 USD / Month - 107.40 USD
- Upload photos and videos
- Alter your search parameters
- Create and personalize a detailed profile
- Add 200 hundred people to your ‘Hotlist’
- Chat using ‘Instant Messenger’
- Watch ‘Live’ shows from sexy models
- Get involved with the blogs, forums, and chat rooms
- Stream your own live show
- Access to adult videos and webcams
- Send virtual gifts
- See full member profiles
- Access to full size and full-length videos
- Use advanced search
- Unlimited people on your Hotlist
- Use the direct messaging service
- Send Friend Requests
- Send Flirts
- Read and watch in the ‘Sex Academy’ to learn new moves
Direct debit and credit cards are the main forms of payment.
- Gold membership – access to all the dating features
- Points – can be used to send virtual gifts
- Credits – use them to access webcams and adult movies
Common questions and their answers
A site that provides a safe, private space for people looking to have an affair.
The site is part of a large group that owns lots of other dating sites.
Yes, it’s a legitimate site with lots of active members.
Standard membership and downloading the app are both free.
Gold membership is $39,95 per month, and extra credits and subscriptions start from $3. It is quite expensive but good value.
Go to your account settings or contact the customer service team.
Go to your account settings, access the subscription section, and cancel your auto-renewal.
The ‘Contact Us’ section of the site will allow you to send the customer service team an email through the feedback form.
Yes. It’s a large and active site with lots going on. The subscription services can add up to a hefty monthly price tag, but if it is your main source of sexy fun, then it could be worth it